I'm so sorry for ruining the relationship! I thought I was well stocked away when I was in bed more this morning.
I wouldn't call this a comfortable enough situation. Why not get over the Ellen thing? That seems to be part of the trouble of blaming me for other things in the past, if I do something else. That doesn't make sense like that.
I do respect Ellen, I just said she acted like she did these mean things to me, noises in my room. Why would she say that? They hurt me a lot.